Egypt Presidential Election 2.0

Has it really been over five months since our last blog??  What can we say?  We are sorry!  It's been sometimes overwhelming and we feel like we are crawling to make it to our home leave.

Freedom is complicated!

     First with the Egypt news that CNN and FOX don't report.  The city is not burning.  We are not hiding in our homes (except when tired).  Security is slowly returning.  All journalists are not in jail (but unfortunately for freedom of the press, a notable few are).  The freedom of speech cherished and celebrated in the US are there because the country is stable and it's a core value of our Constitution.  Conditions and attitudes are not the same in other parts of the world, so be careful in applying western mindsets and values to Middle Eastern cultures--they don't always translate!  Most Egyptians here are not wringing their hands about what happened on June 30 and August 14, 2014.  They just want their country back.  And we just want the expats to come back because church and school numbers are way down!  It is difficult to watch expats who have lived here for 20 years have to suddenly pack up and leave because their company's contract was ended by the US foreign policy linked with aid to Egypt.  The Russians and other Gulf countries are more than happy to make up that 3 billion in US aid in order to attach their own set of strings.
   

The red inked finger means you voted.

The voting for president ended yesterday, and as expected former general Sisi who oversaw sweeping the Mu_slim brothers from power has been elected.  Yes, the turnout was low, and leaders are worried about Egypt's image before the world.  But what Egypt most needs is competent, honest, just, and courageous government that will tackle the real issues; then the image will take care of itself.  We are hopeful about Egypt's future, but there are huge problems to address.  One issue we feel personally is the power cuts.  It is expected that in the 100º+ daily heat of summer, we will see 3-4 power cuts per day lasting an hour each.  It may be the summer of sweating in the dark!  Now if we could only turn that into a weight loss program ...
     After our snowy weekend in December, the winter turned out relatively warm.  We never turned on our heat after that.  The most notable and challenging thing Steve encountered at church was merging the African worship service on Friday afternoons into the main International Service on Fridays at 5 pm.  We haven't had this much fun since the worship wars of the mid 1980s when some dared to start contemporary worship services in traditional churches.  It seems some dynamics transcend culture!  There was outcry, a petition, maneuvering, resistance, and weeping.  But in the end we are now one worship service with many nations--no ethnic group has their own segregated service (but talk about irony when coming from a country where "segregation" is akin to racism!).  Steve is emotionally exhausted and learning about placing all things in God's hands from the last five months.  Those grieving the loss of African style worship will only have to wait a few months for our daughter church plant to hopefully move into that Friday afternoon time slot to provide an African-led and African-resourced church experience.

Egypt traffic is sometimes a free for all!

     Karan has also had a challenging year in middle school.  After surviving the reduction in force (that will start in August), she has experienced the dynamics of lower morale among staff, while planning for fewer teachers to cover redistributed classes this coming year.  Her special education student load this year has been especially demanding with more high-need students requiring higher levels of support.  Her special ed colleague for the last five years will be moving to a speech pathologist position in the elementary division, so next year Karan will have a new co-worker in special ed.  Her stress found its way into her back and neck which has limited some of her recreational activities.  In times past, a Canadian chiropractor was able to keep things in alignment, but he left last summer.  Finally earlier this month, she found a US-trained Egyptian chiropractor-osteopath-MD (three separate doctoral degrees if you are keeping count) who has realigned her back and neck to a much improved state.  All for only $120 USD per session (three times the going rate in Maadi for an office visit, so we figure he charges once for each doctoral degree per office visit)!  We pray it is covered by insurance.
   

Travis at the driving range

Travis is still in Yakima, WA with Verizon as an assistant manager.  He has done very well and they want to move him back to Spokane in August for experience in a larger store on his way to perhaps becoming a store manager.  He seems to have found his niche, but has missed his social network in Spokane.  Living alone has not helped.  He started going to a gym and informed us that exercise actually has reduced his stress, helped him lose weight, and made him feel better.  Oh, and the gym has some really good looking girls, but that is not his real motivation for going ...
     Brett started a job in January at the Museum of Flight in south Seattle.  He does design work in production for their advertising, but also has a little bit of opportunity to rework their website--his preferred area of design along with user interface apps.  In December Brett bought a nice used Honda and then a woman ran into him while they were attempting a left turn and totaled his car.  Worse than that was that he injured his toe.  He was dazed and they took him to the emergency room, but the toe was the main issue.  He is still receiving treatment, but has almost full activity again.  Naturally there was a battle over responsibility.  Since Brett only had liability insurance (and no personal injury protection), his insurance company did not get involved.  This meant that Brett had to hire a personal injury lawyer to get representation.  The police issued the lady a ticket which was upheld in a court challenge.  So the lady's insurance has assumed responsibility and we guess the lawyer is waiting for Brett to complete medical treatment since his big toe is still a bit crooked.  Brett's living situation was also less than desirable, so he moved in with some guys from Mars Hill branch church hear the University of Washington campus.  (We have a Spokane friend who went to Washington State who would say that Brett now lives next door to hell.)

While Alex was in Spokane ...

     Alex has completed his second year at Gonzaga and now has been admitted into the Business School where he will major in Marketing and International Business with a minor in Sports Management.  He also worked 20+ hours per week at Kimmel (a sports retail store),
took 15 credits (which included accounting, business law, business information systems, and economics),

and made the Dean's List this past semester.  Alex came to see us at Christmas and we went to Switzerland where the balmy temperatures made the snow less than ideal for snow boarding.  We tried snow shoeing, but carried the shoes more than wore them.  We will try again next year.  Alex will spend a second summer as camp counselor at Redwood camp (for elementary-age) at Mount Hermon Christian Conference Center outside Santa Cruz, CA.
   

Golden Temple Sri Lanka

Our other trip outside Egypt was at spring break to Sri Lanka.  We experienced a whole new culture and roads even more crowded and slower than Egypt!  Still we loved the trip and got a taste of Buddhist culture and archeology.  We also had a few days at a beach and a one day safari.  Remember you can keep up with us on Facebook at Karan Wooley Flora or srflora on Twitter.

Cheers!
Steve and Karan
  


     

Snowy December in Cairo

first snow in 112 years

Merry Christmas from chilly Cairo!  Egypt was in the news again last week … but this time not for another revolution!  Outlying suburbs of Cairo received snow (for the first time in 112 years).  We saw three days of rain, and not the usually get the streets kind of wet a few times each year, but actually steady soaking rain.  What makes it really fun is the complete lack of any sewers or storm drains.  We wait for the standing water to evaporate and watch new batches of mosquitoes hatch!  A week later there is still mud along the edges of the street since the high temperatures have been in the upper 50s and lower 60s F (15-17º C), and lows have been in the lower to mid 40s (6-7º C).  So power outages have started back up as people run their heaters non-stop.  For the first time in anyone’s memory, we could not have church under our tent canopy last Friday night (December 13) due to standing water.  Instead we had to cram in a room inside with people standing in the entryway—don’t tell the fire marshal (not that Egypt has any of those)!

            So what has happened since early autumn?  Waiting!  First we waited for the state of emergency with its Friday curfew at 7 pm to lift (other days had a midnight curfew).  This forced us to meet at 8:30 am on Friday mornings until mid November when the curfew ended.  Now we are back to our 5 pm time and people are happier and less sleepy.  The streets have become noticeably calmer since summer.

a few protests still continue

There are fewer protests as the military backed government has marginalized the opposition.  Most Egyptians are quite happy with the return to better security and are not crying out about some loss of freedom of speech.  The streets also are seeing fewer crimes like purse-snatchings and robbery.  Now we wait for the elections that will start in January with a referendum on yet another new constitution.  There will be a parliamentary election in Spring, then the presidential election in June.  We hope for a government that will represent all of Egypt and not make a power grab to take care of only their followers.

Karan at Red Sea in El Gouna

            The numbers of expats is still definitely much smaller even though the US embassy has sent many people back.  Karan’s school still has a significantly lower attendance, as well as church.  The budget and staff reductions continue, but Karan still has a job next year as far as we know.  However, it has made for a fairly low morale.  People are still reluctant to come to live or even visit until they feel things have settled.  So this is yet another year of transition!  We work to relieve the underlying stress by getting away, but we are both feeling really tired and worn out.  In October we went to the Red Sea for 6 days for a warm and wonderful time away.  In early January, we are planning to go to Switzerland with Alex (the only son coming for Christmas).  We will mostly go cross-country skiing, and are not sure what Alex will do aside from a few days of snow-boarding (provided they get snow between now and then!).  Maybe he will learn to like cross-country skiing!?

             

Nelson Mandela

Our church had the privilege to host a memorial service for Nelson Mandela on December 10.  It was attended by many ambassadors and some who worked personally with Nelson Mandela in his early years.  It was fascinating and enlightening to hear their stories!  His life was transformed in prison and when he emerged 27 years later, he used the principles of forgiveness and "love your enemies" that Jesus spoke of in the Sermon on the Mount.  He became a man who helped transform a deeply divided country, a continent, and a world.  Many of us talk about living these principles of blessing and praying for those who persecute us, but few of us actually live it out!  I was inspired and humbled by the memorial service! 

            Travis has moved to Yakima with a job promotion into assistant manager for Verizon.  He is liking his new job and feels he is doing quite well in it.  He misses his friends in Spokane and has felt fairly alone in a new city living by himself.

snow in outlying Cairo suburb

Brett has been job searching all Fall without success until last week.  He will be working for the Museum of Flight in Seattle starting in early January.  He was in a major car accident when a woman made an unprotected left turn into his left front fender/bumper.  It totaled the 1996 Honda he had just bought a few weeks earlier (and had just put in $1300 of repairs), plus he broke his right big toe.  So he had his first ambulance ride and visit to an emergency room.  We believe the hand of God was in it since this Honda had air bags that deployed to shield him from more serious injury (there was lots of broken glass).  Had he been in our 1990 Camry that he had only a few weeks earlier, he would not have been protected by air bags!  Since he had only liability insurance and the other insurance isn’t interested in helping him because the other driver is claiming she had an arrow, he has had to hire a personal injury lawyer.  She was issued a ticket, but says she will fight it because she has witnesses.  Brett really needs a favorable settlement since this has cost him $4000 so far, plus not being able to start his job until after his toe hopefully “sets.”  There is still the possibility of surgery if the bone does not form together.

           

muddy street in Cairo--yuck!

Alex has finished his challenging semester at Gonzaga University in pre-business classes like accounting, statistics, business law, and economics, all while working 20 hours per week.  He arrives here Sunday night, December 21 to see all his Egyptian friends.

            We would love to hear from you!  Remember Karan is on Facebook at “karan wooley flora” and Steve is on Twitter at “srflora”.  Have a worship filled Christmas!

Steve and Karan

Living in Egypt Revolution 2.0

Tahrir June 2013

Every summer we explain to people back home that each year in Egypt has been vastly different.  This year is shaping up to be no exception!  We remember thinking in 2010 how it seemed inconceivable for any other group to replace the Mubarak regime, yet it happened.  Before we left for summer home-leave, it seemed just as inconceivable that the next president would be taken from power after only a year in office.  We have refrained from recording our opinions about the politics in Egypt or America, but this summer and Fall has been particularly frustrating.
   

Delga church

So we need to get a couple of things off our chests (you can skip this paragraph if you want).  First, when a new form of "democracy" has been started, but it has then ceased to be a democracy, is it wrong to unseat that government before any future elections will no longer be free?  (Too bad we can't ask the leaders of Germany's Weimar Republic that question now!)  Second, you cannot impose an advanced American template of democracy (with 200+ years to be established in a now literate populace) on nascent democracies in the Middle East (people used to authoritarian

worship in burned out Egypt church

government and religious leaders telling them how to think) and expect Western outcomes!  Half of Egypt is estimated to be illiterate and vote however their village chieftain tells them.  The actions of the deposed president's supporters revealed their true motives with widespread violence and destruction.  Third, when you don't have much of the Western world in support and little Middle East coalition support, why would you almost launch a military strike into a civil war where most sides are without morals?  Especially if this military strike

burned out interior of Egypt church

will likely spill over into a conflict that ignites the whole region and pits international superpowers against each other?  Why would you take that risk in the name of "accountability" when you have selectively ignored past violators?  We are waiting for the four riders of the Apocalypse to appear on the horizon!  (End of political comments!)

      Turmoil and uncertainty have been the "new normal" for nearly three years, and that has a stress and wearing all its own.  So we keep learning newer and deeper ways that life is not about us controlling everything to our desired outcomes.  We keep talking about how God works most dramatically during times of transition, so we are learning to look for His fingerprints all around us.  Many from other religions are asking questions and we want our followers of Jesus to be ready to engage them in loving and wise relationships and responses!  We also pray a lot as a church.  These are our roles for now in this land!
   

In a burned out church, the signs say: "My
terrorist brother, I came today to pray for you.”

We have been absolutely amazed at the spiritual response of many in the persecuted Egyptian churches.  Their love and forgiveness humble me and provide a standard of living out Jesus' kingdom principles in Matthew 5!  It must also be stressed that most Muslims in Egypt in no way support the violence against Christians and churches.  In some cases, they have risked their lives to help their Christian neighbors!

     We also press forward on initiatives to support the indigenous church of Egypt.  Over 85 churches were burned, as well as monasteries and Christian shops and businesses.  One of our church members went to visit Delga (one of the hardest attacked Christian villages).

Child's drawing shows mosque giving comfort to church.

He saw the aftermath of the atrocities and is now raising support to help the Christian families rebuild their lives.  (To go to our church website to link to his report "MCC eyewitness", click on: www.maadicommunitychurch.com.  If you want more detailed story about the situation, click on the links to two news articles:  http://bigstory.ap.org/article/south-egypt-islamists-take-over-town
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/sep/16/egyptian-police-recapture-islamist-town-delga
     Meanwhile, our boys back home have life transitions of their own.  Travis was promoted to assistant manager with Verizon and has moved to Yakima, Washington.  He has been very successful in his career path with Verizon.  It's been nice to be able to see that our words to him during school: "Just get through it and jump through the hoops, then the world will be your oyster!" have come true.  Travis' people skills have really paid off for him.  Brett finished his internship with Mount Hermon in Santa Cruz, California.  He is now back in Seattle looking to take some online training to work on web design and web user interface development.  His graphic production emphasis is harder to find jobs as print continues to decline as a media.  Alex is back at Gonzaga in Spokane and starting his business classes in earnest now.  This semester includes accounting, statistics, and business law--yikes!  He is also working part-time at an athletic store near campus.  He doesn't have much free time these days!  Karan finds out this week if she will have a job next year.  The church is about half of what it was last Fall, so it's a new world in many respects!
     Please keep praying for us!  You can follow Steve on Twitter at srflora and Karan on Facebook at Karan Wooley Flora for more up-to-date personal reports than this sporadic blog!

Safely in His Hand,

Steve & Karan Flora

Things are calm in Maadi so far & we are inside observing
the curfew from 7pm-6am.  Church services will go on this
Friday and we will pray for the country--the most powerful
response a Christian can have!  Here is a report from
Healing Grace Ministry (Egyptian-based) that we support
to give a different view than you are hearing on the news:

Since Morsi's ouster on July 2, there have been two
pro-Morsi/Muslim

Brotherhood (MB) sit-ins in Cairo. One was in Rabaa (in Nasr City) and one was in Nahda Square (in Giza).  For the past week, the government has been warning the protesters that they were going to clear the sit-ins.  Yesterday morning, they acted on their warnings and began clearing the squares using tear gas, gunfire, and bulldozers.  The MB retaliated violently, attacking Christians across Egypt.  More than 20 churches were
burned, Christian homes and shops were attacked,
a Christian orphanage was attacked and burned,
and more that we likely aren't aware of yet.

In Minya and Beni Suef, the regions where the many
of Healing Grace villages are located, the following
places were burned:

• Mar Mina Coptic Orthodox Church (Southern Minya)
• Gad El Seed Evangelical Church (Southern Minya)
• Anba Mosa el Aswad Coptic Orthodox Church (Southern Minya)
• El Amir Tadros Coptic Orthodox Church (Central Minya)
• YMCA (Northern Minya)
• Saint Joseph Sister Catholic School (Central Minya)
• Saniem Assembly of God Church (Southern Minya)
• El Dahabia Ship (the 1st Seminary in Egypt, built by missionaries 150 years ago)

The interim president put the country under a State
of Emergency for the next month.  A curfew has been
imposed for 7 major regions, including Cairo and 
Minya.  We don't know how long it will be in effect,
but it will be for a while.

How has Healing Grace been Affected?

There is a general feeling of intimidation among the
Christians.  All churches are closed.  AWANA Clubs
have been suspended until further notice.  All Christian
shops are closed.  No one is going to work in the fields.
Everyone is staying home.  

Unfortunately, we have a few specific incidents affecting
our staff and villages.
- After a successful Children's Conference yesterday
morning, our regional Field Manager, Ezzat, was robbed
on his way home.  All of the children had made it home
safely, but he was stopped along the road and robbed
of everything.  The only thing they left him was his car.
We praise the Lord that he wasn't harmed physically.
- The families in An Nasareyah are being harassed by
the MB.  They are pounding on the Christian's doors
and blaming them for Morsi's ouster.
- In Saniem, the church's main hall was burned.  One
of Healing Grace's preschools is housed on the 2nd
floor of the church, but the fire didn't reach that high
and the preschool was saved.  We praise the Lord
that no one was injured.

What's Next?

What will happen in the coming days is unknown.
It has become fairly common for demonstrations
to occur following Friday prayers and with yesterdays
events, we anticipate tomorrow will be a big day.
We are playing things one day at a time.

How Can I Help?

Pray!  Specifically, pray for:
- A peaceful Friday when we expect demonstrations

to be the largest.

- The nation's leaders (political and religious) as they

speak and act, influencing what happens in the coming

days.

- Wisdom for our staff as they make decisions for

themselves and the children/families we serve.

- Safety for everyone in Egypt.

Egypt from an Egyptian Christian perspective

Steve and Karan: We have been in the US since June 15, so we are watching with prayer the still unfolding events in Egypt.  God is at work, but remember His timetable is not ours!  We hope and pray that we can return to be part of His kingdom work August 9.  Here is a writing from Egyptian Christian Ramez Attalah who directs the Bible Society of Egypt.
   

Dear friends,

 When I wrote last Wednesday July 3rd about the remarkably peaceful mass demonstrations against President Morsi, I could not have imagined that by that night he would be deposed and the next morning we would already have a new interim President!

 On Thursday the majority of Egyptians partied on the streets all night celebrating the downfall of the man and his Muslim Brotherhood (MB) party.

 Why did Egyptians vote for Morsi then demonstrate for his removal? 

Last year Egyptians had to choose between a former Mubarak-regime army general and a Muslim Brotherhood leader for president. Many abstained from voting and among those who voted for Morsi were liberal Muslims and a small percentage of Christians who were really voting against a Mubarak candidate.
   

Within a year since being narrowly elected, Morsi had violated every one of his campaign promises. 

Shortly after his election he began acting much more like a totalitarian dictator than as an elected official, and soon gave himself full executive, legislative and judicial powers. Instead of choosing the best and most capable people to lead the country with him, he replaced nearly all government Ministers and most of the 27 regional Governors by people from his party. Most of these were incompetent for the positions to which they had been elevated. In turn these leaders did the same with the people under them. 

As a result, the performance of Morsi and his government was extremely poor in almost all areas – economically, financially, politically and from a security point of view. Moreover, he was leading Egypt rapidly towards the dark tunnel of political Islam, the ideology which he and the MB espoused. In doing so he and his party succeeded in rapidly alienating themselves from most Egyptians who realized he was really not interested in their welfare.


   The greatest blow to Political Islam in recent history 

Egyptians are deeply hurt by what they perceive as a complete lack of appreciation by many Western and other allies for the enormous liberation they have achieved. The BCC claimed that the peaceful demonstration against Morsi by more than 30 million Egyptians was probably the largest demonstration in the history of humanity!

 Since it was founded in 1928, the MB has been striving to establish an Islamic state in Egypt which would eventually encompass the Arab world. Gaining power in Egypt was their first political breakthrough.

 The complete failure of the first Muslim Brotherhood “political Islam” experiment is a terrible shock for them and “miraculous” (this word is often used in the media) for many Egyptians who were convinced the MB were here to stay! The worldwide consequences of most Egyptians’ rejection of political Islam as a viable option are a serious set-back to the MB theocratic political dream. Islam is no longer “the political solution” as the Islamicists claimed. It has been tried in Egypt and has failed to win the approval of the 21st century Muslim masses. This will have dramatic implications for many of the countries the MB influence in the region (Syria, Jordan, Gaza, Libya, Kuwait, Qatar, Turkey, Tunisia among others) and worldwide.
   

What next?

 Most Egyptians believe the only way to have liberated themselves from the iron grip of the MB was with the army’s help. But they are also looking forward to returning to a civil State as soon as possible. So the sooner we can have new Parliamentary and Presidential elections the better. 

To do so, there needs to be a political reconciliation with the MB followers, who have been protesting on the streets since the removal of their leader and are continuing to incite their followers to violence. Their anger at being ousted is understandable. But the violent and destructive way in which they are protesting is creating havoc in the country. Unlike the peaceful millions who were on the street to remove Morsi, the hundreds of thousands of MB protestors are terrorizing the areas in which they congregate. This aggressive protest, and retaliation to it, has very sadly resulted in more than 130 deaths to date and more than 4000 wounded!
   

Please pray for a breakthrough in this complex, dangerous and very sad deadlock.

Egypt is and continues to be a Muslim Nation

It is very important to emphasize, in no uncertain terms, that Egypt’s vote against “political” Islam was actually a vote for “moderate” Islam. The tens of millions of Muslims who protested on the streets last week will be celebrating Ramadan (which begins this week) with great fervor and deep religious commitment. What they protested against was the MB narrow understanding of Islam being forcefully imposed upon all Egyptians.
   

During and following the January 2011 revolution, Christians in Egypt regained close relationships with their Muslim friends and neighbors and felt very much at peace living among a Muslim majority. During Morsi’s presidency Christians feared that Egyptian Muslims as a whole were espousing a version of Islam which would not have been hospitable to Christians. We sighed a deep sigh of relief this week, realizing that the vast majority of Egyptian Muslims were moderates who wanted to share Egypt equally with us.


   Back to Nation Building

: Having been side-tracked by the MB takeover, we all now want to rebuild our Nation on the basis of true justice, freedom and equal opportunity for all. Please pray alongside us that this dream will be achieved without discrimination or recrimination. 

Pray for us at the Bible Society as we again seek to promote these crucial values which come from God’s Word.



With thanks and concern,


Ramez Atallah, 
General Director 
The Bible Society of Egypt.

Another World Outside Your Door

This is a follow-up story to our previous blog posting earlier today. 

Living in Cairo, we become so used to the fast-pace of life and tall buildings blocking the sun, that we forget there is another world outside our door.  Global Health Facts says that 57% of Egypt’s population lives outside urban areas.  Much of Egypt is a great and sprawling desert punctuated with tiny islands of humanity living in villages.  I recently visited some of these villages with Healing Grace Ministries and I will never be the same.  Life in the village has a decidedly different pace and flavor governed more by the calendar than the clock.

These villages are like villages in other parts of the world: narrow dirt streets shared with goats, cows, donkeys, and chickens.  Not a tree or blade of grass such as grace the garden suburbs in Maadi are to be found in these villages.  The buildings are two-story plain block of the same gray-brown color.  Multiple generations live in one and two room flats with cement floors and open windows that do little to keep out the cold or heat or the constant flies.  Occupants sleep on the floor or on wooden benches covered with a thin cushion, if they are fortunate.  One two-year old naps during our visit while flies crawl on his head, yet he doesn’t stir.  (I wonder how does your body learn to do that?  If a mosquito even so much as buzzes my ear in the middle of the night, I bolt up and turn on the light to begin a battle for survival!)  For those raised in a higher standard of living, the sights, sounds, and smells are startling.  But if you were to only look on the surface, you would miss the true heart of these villages.

We sit and talk with these families about their lives.  Some are seasonal farm laborers, others work in quarries, and still others have no job.  Many of them have little education because they had to go to work to help the family survive.  We meet teenagers who are only now going back to school to pick up where they left off years ago.  An older widow tells of begging for food after the family stopped providing for her.  She is slowly going blind, as she has been told it is too late to remove the cataracts robbing her sight.  One man tells the tragic story of his life of many years ago.  He was a highly-skilled tailor until the day a group of men assaulted him and broke his hands and beat his head.  He could no longer work and had to beg, but his now disfigured appearance frightened people away.  His head trauma altered his behavior and he began beating his wife who then began beating the children.  The word desperation doesn’t even begin to describe their situation.  How does a family even begin to recover from such misfortune??

Yet the mother telling this story smiled and talked with remarkable hope and joy, while her husband worked at the sewing machine making a galabeya, running the machine with a chain between two toes.  The difference was that a pastor in the village cared enough to reach out to her traumatized husband and take him to a doctor to receive treatment.  Healing Grace (a local Egyptian ministry that works with and through local Egyptian village churches) came to the village and began to help, giving food so some would not have to beg.  The older widow danced with giddy joy when she received her food bag.  (I recalled with shame my irritation last summer when my new laptop did not arrive on time before I was to return to Egypt.  My attitude had an adjustment after witnessing this scene!)  The local village church and Healing Grace also offered classes on mothering so she could learn how to balance love and discipline instead of beating her children.  Her husband was taught how to be a good husband and father.  He received a loan to purchase a sewing machine so he could begin making a living again with his partially functioning hands.  The village churches and Healing Grace also work to encourage families to keep their children in school.  In some villages they have even provided water filtration systems so the whole village can have clean water and not fall victim to the constant diseases from contaminated water.

When I live in isolated affluence, I need my eyes opened to the rest of the world.  I can share my physical resources, but I also need to share my heart.  I need to see others with less material goods as valuable human beings who have something to offer me.  If I only come to share my resources as a “benevolent” gesture to “those people” so I can feel good about myself, then I miss a greater blessing.  I need to come with humility and see how needy my own heart is.  These people encouraged me and made me feel valued.  They reminded me that an abundance of material goods does not bring happiness.  There is an inexpressible joy and warmth when a little girl sings a song to you that she learned in school.  It puts a new perspective on love—something my hurried world needs much more of!